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Home / Life Stories

Going Home

Erren Hart

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07/29/2023
White cup of morning coffee or cappuccino. Cozy breakfast.

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I hope you’re all doing well and ready to catch up on what’s been happening in my life. I’ve decided to start these Monday Morning Catch-Up blog posts so we can connect on a more personal level. Sure, my recipes are the star of the show, but I want you to get to know the real me too!

Erren with her husnabd and son
My Family

You have been wonderful, loyal readers and after last Monday’s post, I want to continue to connect and share who I am with you so you know the person behind the food.

So, on Monday mornings I’m going to write a post to just catch up and let you know what’s happening – just in case you’d like to know! 🙂

As some of you may know, I’m originally a Jersey Girl, but fate had other plans for me. Fifteen years ago, I fell head over heels for an Englishman, and we embarked on a whirlwind romance that led me to the UK. We’ve had an amazing life together, and our pride and joy is our incredible 10-year-old son.

Life took an unexpected turn when our little boy was diagnosed with High Functioning Autism Disorder, also known as Aspergers or ASD. It was a tough pill to swallow, and it changed everything for us. As parents, we had to navigate uncharted waters, facing challenges we never anticipated. But it’s been a journey of growth and understanding, and we’ve learned so much along the way.

A pivotal moment came during a visit to NJ in the Summer of 2017. It was heartwarming to see our son thriving in that familiar environment. He connected with people, smiled, and engaged in conversations like never before. It was truly a sight to behold. For a child who usually tries to shield his emotions, it was overwhelming to see him feeling so comfortable and at ease with others.

That visit made us realize that we needed to make a big decision – to move back home for good. Life in England had its challenges, and I often felt isolated with limited social interactions. Working from home has its perks, but it also meant having little opportunity to connect with others. Plus, no family around meant no babysitter or date nights – not an easy situation for any parent!

The idea of going back home, where family and dear friends reside, seemed like the right choice. We need their support as we continue this journey with our boy, and let’s be honest, a helping hand with babysitting is always a bonus! So, in just three short months, we’ll be making the big move – going home!

But before that, we have one major hurdle to overcome – my husband’s green card interview. I can’t even begin to describe how nervous I am about it! This interview is the only thing standing in the way of our new adventure, and I’m sending all the good vibes and crossed fingers I can muster. Wish us luck, guys!

I’m excited about what lies ahead and to share this journey with all of you. Life may throw us curveballs, but it’s the love and support we get from our dear ones and our extended family of readers that keep us going strong.

So, there you have it – a little glimpse into my world. Thank you for being such wonderful and loyal readers. I appreciate every one of you. Stay tuned for more updates and stories from the heart. Until next time! 😊

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26 responses

  1. Aniela Avatar
    Aniela
    01/18/2019

    Oh my gosh Erren!!! So excited for you guys! Let us know when you reach state side – it has been far too long since we last saw you guys xx

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    1. Erren Avatar
      Erren
      01/20/2019

      Hi Aniela! I knew you would be! Of all my friends only you know what it really means to go home. I’ll be in touch! 🙂

      Reply
  2. Kenny Avatar
    Kenny
    01/16/2019

    I’m excited about your move in 3 months. It’ll be here before you know it! This is such a good idea with your blog. America has missed you!😀

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    1. Erren Avatar
      Erren
      01/17/2019

      Thanks, Ken! I’m excited too (especially for our more manageable time difference). I’ve missed America too!

      Reply
  3. Melissa Avatar
    Melissa
    01/16/2019

    I know it’s not been an easy road, but I admire your strength, courage and determination! Your Love for your child has been your drive for success. I’m so very proud of you! I think coming home and being with your support system is important and necessary for all of you. One that I’m sure will help you all thrive even more.
    Looking fwd to your blogs on Mondays and to some more great cuisine!

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    1. Erren Avatar
      Erren
      01/17/2019

      Thanks so much, Melissa! I can’t tell you how much it means! I think you’re right – it will be good for all of us! <3

      Reply
  4. Christie O’Connor Avatar
    Christie O’Connor
    01/15/2019

    I am so proud of the woman you have become against all odds living so far from your people. My son has ADHD. I know hearing that your child is different is such a blow. Having a support system is vital. So happy for you that you will be home!

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    1. Erren Avatar
      Erren
      01/15/2019

      Thank you, Christie. That’s so very sweet of you! A support system is so important and I can’t wait to have it on a regular basis when I’m home. We’ll make sure we get together often! We’ll go from being school friends to Mom friends! xo

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  5. Carol Avatar
    Carol
    01/15/2019

    Erren, the best of luck with the move and getting the family support that is so necessary when you have a special child. I have heard children with ASD are able to thrive very well. My friend has a son with ASD and he just started his freshman year at Cornell. When my son was diagnosed years ago with Tourette Syndrome, part of my family turned their backs on us. I found support through the Tourette Syndrome Association and that helped us. We also found great support with the school system.
    Best of luck with everything!!!!

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    1. Erren Avatar
      Erren
      01/15/2019

      Hi Carol, Thank you for sharing your story. It can be rough getting acceptance for a child that’s different. I try not to pay too much attention to that kind of negativity and I’m getting better at it! 🙂 I had an ASD counselor I worked with for the first year and she helped a lot and I also have some close friends help me through. I look very forward to everyday support that will come with going home. Thank so much for the well wishes!

      Reply
  6. Angela Avatar
    Angela
    01/15/2019

    This post makes me happy and sad! I don’t want you to go, you are an amazing friend and we have had some great laughs, let’s hope that doesn’t end. It’s been a privilege to have been a part of your Uk life. Keep the posts coming. X

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    1. Erren Avatar
      Erren
      01/15/2019

      Oh Ang, I am so happy we re-connected and my time here is ending with lots of laughter and the good times that will stay with me forever. Thank you for being my friend and for cheering me on with this blog (and so much more). Your support has been amazing! xx

      Reply
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    Kim
    01/15/2019

    I’m so happy that you are including this component to your blog! I’ve followed you since your “Pondhopper” days and I always admired your style of recounting events and emotions. I for one, can’t wait to read all about your transition back to America with your family!

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    1. Erren Avatar
      Erren
      01/15/2019

      Oh wow, thanks so much, Kim! Personal writing isn’t easy, but you make me want to keep going! 🙂

      Reply
  8. NICOLE Avatar
    NICOLE
    01/15/2019

    Your raw honesty and fierce dedication to your family is unparalleled. You have taken on way more than most can handle and done it with such integrity. The success you have accomplished with Erren’s Kitchen is astounding to say the least. Thanks so much for sharing this part of your life. My family certainly appreciates your recipes!!

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    1. Erren Avatar
      Erren
      01/15/2019

      I couldn’t have done any of it without you! Thanks so much for being my cheerleader and my rock! Love you!

      Reply
  9. Jade Avatar
    Jade
    01/15/2019

    This was so heartwarming and lovely to read, thank you for being open and honest with us about how you feel, it must be hard being away from family, I don’t know what I would do without mine! Being a single mum with two children myself, one who has daily struggles also can be hard, never knowing if you’re doing the right thing or if you’ve chosen the right thing for them is a burden itself. It sounds like your little boy is a very lucky one to have a Mum that clearly loves and puts all his needs first! I hope America is everything you hope it will be! Ps, I don’t know what I would cook without your recipes these days they have become a way of life haha keep them coming 😉 Lots of love U.K Mum xx

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    1. Erren Avatar
      Erren
      01/15/2019

      What a LOVELY comment! Thank you so much! Motherhood is hard for sure, but all we can do is the best we can! Lots of love back!!

      Reply
  10. Honor Munro Avatar
    Honor Munro
    01/15/2019

    What a fantastic read from your number 1 fan!
    Such a great idea to start a series that lets us all find out a little bit more about you! Behind Erren’s kitchen is clearly a very inspirational women! Can’t wait to find out more next Monday!

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    1. Erren Avatar
      Erren
      01/15/2019

      Ahh, Thanks so much Honor! You’re the best! xo

      Reply
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