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Family Meal Spaghetti (From The Bear)

A delicious and easy spaghetti sauce made with 10 garlic cloves, a bunch of fresh basil, and San Marzano tomatoes. Perfect for any night of the week.

Erren Hart

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11/12/2025
4.95 from 19 votes
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Serves: 6
Prep: 5 minutes mins
Cook: 20 minutes mins
Family Meal Spaghetti (From The Bear) being served with a large fork
a plate of Family Meal Spaghetti (From The Bear) with chopped herbs and grated cheese
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a fork serving spaghetti with tomato sauce

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If you’re a foodie and watched The Bear on Hulu, you need this recipe for Family Meal Spaghetti (From The Bear).

a plate of Family Meal Spaghetti (From The Bear) with chopped herbs and grated cheese

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Let me start by saying if you haven’t seen the TV show ‘The Bear’ (available on Hulu), you need to! It is hands down one of the best shows I’ve seen in a very long time. The acting is top-notch, the writing is superb, and if you’re a foodie, the cooking makes you want to run to the kitchen!

an image showing the starts of the bear

If you’re already a fan, then you know that the Family Meal Spaghetti is a big part of the show (If you haven’t made it to the end, I suggest you stop here and come back once you have). And if you’re a foodie like me, you’ve probably been thinking a lot about how to make the spaghetti recipe written on that index card.

An index card with the ingredients for Family Meal Spaghetti from the TV show the bear

Because Carmy made most of the dish off camera, I thought a lot about how it could be done. I mean, I thought about it for days. I never saw it done that way and needed to fill in the blanks. So, I made my version, and I have to say, it’s a delicious way to make a marinara sauce!

I used the recipe ingredients on the card, even though Carmy didn’t. If you want a recipe for his version – check out this recipe on buzzfeed.

I used the few clips we had from the show to come up with the cooking method. There are a few ways it could be done, but I tried to keep it quick and easy. I hope you enjoy it and I’d like to think that Carmy and his brother would approve. Thank you, Chef!

  • Ingredient Notes
  • How To Make Family Meal Spaghetti (From The Bear)
  • Make ahead and Freezing Instructions
  • Erren’s Top Tips & Variations
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Ingredient Notes

ten cloves of garlic, a can of San Marzano tomatoes, basil, and olive oil

Whole Fresh Garlic Cloves: Fresh garlic is key to this recipe. Peel them and keep them whole.

San Marzano tomatoes: These are sweet with low acidity and worth paying for as long as they have the DOP-certified seal on the can. If you can’t find them, substitute them with whole Roma tomatoes. You’ll need two 28oz/800g cans (the small cans taste better). When I lived in the UK, I found that 400g cans were much more readily available, so if that’s the case where you are, four of those will be just fine.

Fresh Basil: You can find this in the herb section of most supermarkets. You’ll need a big handful for this recipe—no need to chop or remove the leaves – stems and all.

How To Make Family Meal Spaghetti (From The Bear)

Start with putting a large pot of salted water for the spaghetti over high heat.

a pot of boiling water

Add a half cup of olive oil, 10 cloves of peeled garlic, and a handful of fresh basil (stems and all) to a small saucepan.

Turn the heat to medium-low. Once the mixture comes to a slow boil, let it simmer for a few or until the basil is wilted.

garlic and basil cooking in olive oil

I did this in stages, adding a little basil at a time and then removing it once it wilted. Then I repeated the process to get as much flavor into the oil as possible. You don’t want to let the basil get crispy.

Remove the basil and set it aside while you finish cooking the garlic to a light golden color.

garlic cloves cooking in oil

Remove the pan from the heat, add the basil to the pot and allow the mixture to cool.

Add the tomatoes, garlic, and basil to a food processor or blender with 2 tablespoons of the oil. The infused oil helps the sauce emulsify into a silky smooth texture and adds extra flavor.

the tomatoes and garlic mixture in a blender

Puree until it reaches your desired smoothness. Season with salt and pepper, and then heat the mixture over medium heat in a deep skillet until it comes to a boil. Reduce the heat, and simmer the sauce until thickened.

the sauce bubbling in a pan

This is a good time to cook the spaghetti. You want it to be cooked until it’s just under al dente. It will finish cooking in the sauce.

a pot of spaghetti cookng in water with a fork taking some out

Be sure to reserve about a cup of pasta water before draining. You’ll use it to add to the dish later. The water’s starch helps the sauce stick to the pasta, and the salt adds flavor.

Add the chopped herbs to the sauce, and taste for seasoning. Add more salt as needed. Just be careful here because you may be using the salty pasta water to loosen the sauce, and you don’t want to overseason.

This recipe makes enough sauce for two meals.  I wanted to stay true to the card but make it a realistic family meal, so if you’re cooking just a pound of spaghetti, pack up half the sauce and save it for another time.

Add the pasta to the thickened sauce and toss to coat.

the spaghetti added to the sauce in the pan

Cook until the pasta is al dente, adding pasta water to help loosen the sauce as it cooks with the pasta.

Add some fresh chopped basil or parsley, taste for seasoning, and add more salt as needed before serving.

Family Meal Spaghetti (From The Bear) being served with a large fork

There you have it- Family Meal Spaghetti (From The Bear)

Make ahead and Freezing Instructions

This recipe makes enough sauce for two meals.  I wanted to stay true to the recipe on the card but make it a realistic family meal, so if you’re cooking just a pound of spaghetti, pack up half the sauce and save it for another time.

  • Storing Leftovers: Store in an airtight container and keep in the fridge for up to 3 days.
  • To freeze: Let the pasta cool completely, then add it to a freezer-safe container for up to 3 months. When ready to use, thaw it in the fridge overnight.
  • To Reheat: Gently reheat leftovers on the stove until warmed through
  • Make ahead: This dish with spaghetti is best served fresh from the pan. You can make the sauce ahead of time, reheat it, and resume from step 6 in the recipe.

Erren’s Top Tips & Variations

  • This is the recipe written on Michael’s card, not the version Carmy cooks at the end. To make Carmy’s version, add red pepper flakes to the garlic mixture. Then cut an onion in half, and cook it in a pan cut side down with butter until lightly browned before adding the sauce. Then simmer it in sauce and discard before adding the spaghetti.
  • Add and remove the basil to the oil in stages for the most flavor without crisping the leaves.
  • Cook the garlic until it turns a light golden color for a rich flavor that mellows the bitterness in the garlic.
  • When cooking pasta, salt the water well to season the pasta. Even the best sauce in the world can’t fix bland pasta. 
  • Be careful when seasoning the sauce before you add the pasta. The pasta water will be salty, and you don’t want to overseason the dish.
  • Undercook your spaghetti and allow it to finish cooking in the sauce. It helps the pasta bind with the sauce and absorbs more flavor.

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Recipe

Family Meal Spaghetti (From The Bear)

A delicious and easy spaghetti sauce made with 10 garlic cloves, a bunch of fresh basil, and San Marzano tomatoes. Perfect for any night of the week.
4.95 from 19 votes
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Prep Time: 5 minutes mins
Cook Time: 20 minutes mins
Total Time: 25 minutes mins
Serves 6

Ingredients

  • 1 lb spaghetti
  • ½ cup extra virgin olive oil
  • 10 whole peeled garlic cloves
  • A good handful of fresh basil (including stems)
  • Two 28 oz cans of San Marzano tomatoes (56 oz total)
  • Kosher salt and freshly ground pepper (to taste)
  • 1 tablespoon fresh basil or parsley (for serving)

Instructions

  • In a large pot, bring salted water to a boil to cook the pasta. Cook the pasta until it’s slightly underdone. Reserve about a cup of the cooked pasta water, then drain the pasta and set it aside.
  • In a small saucepan, combine the olive oil, whole peeled garlic cloves, and fresh basil. Simmer the mixture gently for 2 to 3 minutes until the basil is wilted. Remove the basil and set it aside. Continue cooking the garlic until it turns slightly golden. Remove the saucepan from heat and let it cool to room temperature.
  • Use a blender or food processor to puree the tomatoes, cooked garlic, reserved basil, and 2 tablespoons of the oil from the garlic mixture until you have a smooth sauce.
  • Transfer the tomato mixture to a shallow skillet over medium heat. Add salt and pepper to taste. Bring the mixture to a boil, then reduce the heat to low and let it simmer for about 10 minutes to thicken.
  • Add the chopped herbs to the sauce and taste for seasoning. Adjust with more salt if needed. Reserve 2 cups of the sauce for later use; store the remaining sauce for another occasion.
  • Add the partially cooked spaghetti to the skillet and toss it well to coat with the sauce. Continue cooking until the pasta reaches al dente texture. If the sauce appears too thick, you can add a bit of the reserved pasta water to achieve the desired consistency.
  • Taste the dish for seasoning again and add more salt if necessary. Serve the pasta with grated Parmesan cheese at the table.

Tips

This is the recipe written on Michael’s card, not the version Carmy cooks at the end. To make Carmy’s version, add red pepper flakes to the garlic mixture. Then cut an onion in half, and cook it in a pan cut side down with butter until lightly browned before adding the sauce. Then simmer it in sauce and discard before adding the spaghetti.
This recipe makes enough sauce for 2 meals.  I wanted to stay true to the card but make it a realistic family meal, so pack up half the sauce and save it for another time.
  • Add and remove the basil to the oil in stages for the most flavor without crisping the leaves.
  • Cook the garlic until it turns a light golden color for a rich flavor that mellows the bitterness in the garlic.
  • When cooking pasta, salt the water well to season the pasta. Even the best sauce in the world can’t fix bland pasta. 
  • Be careful when seasoning the sauce before you add the pasta. The pasta water will be salty, and you don’t want to overseason the dish.
  • Undercook your spaghetti and allow it to finish cooking in the sauce. It helps the pasta bind with the sauce and absorbs more flavor.
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Nutrition

Calories: 532 | Carbohydrates: 77g | Protein: 15g | Fat: 20g | Saturated Fat: 3g | Polyunsaturated Fat: 3g | Monounsaturated Fat: 13g | Sodium: 355mg | Potassium: 964mg | Fiber: 8g | Sugar: 14g | Vitamin A: 569IU | Vitamin C: 26mg | Calcium: 115mg | Iron: 5mg
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31 responses

  1. Ejay Avatar
    Ejay
    11/23/2022

    The recipe calls for just 2 tablespoons of the garlic-basil oil. What do you do with the rest? Seems like a waste to throw it away.

    Reply
    1. Erren Hart Avatar
      Erren Hart
      11/23/2022

      Hi, Ejay. You can put more in if you want, but I think it would make the sauce greasy. You can always save it for another dish.

      Reply
  2. MrsPeel Avatar
    MrsPeel
    11/12/2022

    Was watching the series and couldn’t help but look for a recipe, found you to be the closest to the series recipe, with my daughter we have been cooking pasta for years, never kept it this simple but really wanna try it, thanks for the visual thing here, also, a question : you mentioned living in the Uk, what brand of tomatoes would you get here? We usually get whatever is on offer, on a low budget pushes us to, but taking that this is pretty much depending on tomatoes quality, would love to know if you had a preference.. Thanks so much for taking the time to share this in such a great way 🙂

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    1. Erren Hart Avatar
      Erren Hart
      11/15/2022

      Hi Mrs. Peel, I always bought whole tomatoes as they tend to be better quality because they have to be in better shape to be canned whole. I would puree or chop them in a food processor to fit my needs. Just buy whatever brand you can afford. Hope this helps!

      Reply
  3. Noreen Avatar
    Noreen
    10/24/2022

    I really enjoyed this recipe for spaghetti. The sauce was flavorful and easy to make. I would definitely recommend this recipe to anyone looking for an easy and delicious spaghetti dish.

    Reply
    1. Erren Hart Avatar
      Erren Hart
      10/24/2022

      I’m so glad to hear it! Thank you for trying out this recipe and for leaving such a positive review. We’re glad you enjoyed it and hope you’ll come back again soon!

      Reply
  4. Emma Avatar
    Emma
    10/02/2022

    I just knew what would come of that show, with those tins! Looking forward to making heaps of basil oil and trying your recipe – thank you!

    Reply
    1. Erren Hart Avatar
      Erren Hart
      10/06/2022

      It was so great, right? I hope you enjoy the recipe just as much!

      Reply
  5. Erren Hart Avatar
    Erren Hart
    08/15/2022

    Thank you for trying our spaghetti and for coming back to comment, Fran! We’re glad you and your family enjoyed it!

    Reply
  6. Jane Anstett Avatar
    Jane Anstett
    08/13/2022

    I have made this recipe and I will go so far as to say that it was better than my mom’s family recipe.

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    1. Erren Hart Avatar
      Erren Hart
      08/26/2022

      Yay! That’s great to hear, Jane!

      Reply
  7. Erren Hart Avatar
    Erren Hart
    08/12/2022

    I know, right? We hope you’ll try some of our other recipes in the future, and be sure to let us know what you think. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on our Bear-inspired dish!

    Reply
  8. Erren Hart Avatar
    Erren Hart
    08/11/2022

    That is great to hear, Gianna! I’m so please you enjoyed it so much!

    Reply
  9. Chas Avatar
    Chas
    08/10/2022

    Seems like a lot of sauce for 1 lb of pasta

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    1. Erren Hart Avatar
      Erren Hart
      08/11/2022

      You are so right, that’s been bothering me since I added the recipe! I wanted to stay true to the card but make it a realistic family meal, so I updated the recipe to pack up half the sauce and save it for another time. Thanks so much for making me address it!

      Reply
  10. Erren Hart Avatar
    Erren Hart
    08/08/2022

    I’m so happy you liked it, and I was able to help you solve the mystery! Such a great show!

    Reply
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